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JANET JACKSON - "WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY"

Used to be a time when you would pamper me... Used to brag about it all the
time... Your friends seem to think that you're so peachy keen... But my friends
say neglect is on your mind... Who's right?

Classic Janet.. I believe this song created a new breed: the independent woman... This song has brought misery to plenty of men worldwide...

I could write/speak volumes about the sovereign/self-sufficient woman but I'll say that lecture for my next post...

What have you done for me lately? Now that's a good fucking question... That question could be answered with various responses but for some: not a damn thing... Typically in relationships people are on their best behavior in the beginning... All lovey-dovey, sex 10 times a day, talking on the phone for hours at a time [cue the violins]... Then 6, 7, 8, 9 months in: it gets stale... Y'all text each other good morning & goodnight, only see each other on weekends, and the sex once a week (or even worse once a month)...

So that brings me back to what have you done for me lately?? It doesn't have to be something big like buying me a car or proposing (hint, hint)... It could be something as simple as a bouquet of white & pink carnations (my personal favorite), cooking dinner, hot sweaty "fucking til the sheets come off" sex, strip tease, a card... Just anything to show your significant other that you love, appreciate, cherish, desire, and yearn for them... I truly believe it's the little things that count...